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The grass "is" greener on the other side

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 Some days, its all about spending too much or too little time awake. You be in your room for hours, don't you want to go out a little and enjoy the sun? No. Some days you are just by yourself.  They say "The grass always seems to be greener on the other side". Sometimes it not just seems to be but it is true, the grass is indeed greener on the other side. You sit and think, sometimes for 15 mins sometimes straight for an hour, you just THINK! what have i done not to deserve the completeness other's have? you ask, you keep on asking. No one answers, because you are asking it to yourself and self-answers does not come that easy. Well, maybe there exist no answer. Have you ever thought of that? Maybe the whole purpose of this timeless thinking and questioning is for nothing. Then what is sense? what is the sense of this suffering, this hatred and all these feelings, what is the sense if there is no ray of sunshine at the end of this dark cloud?  All this in...

"what is wrong?"

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Recently, we had news and trolls flushing over the internet about "Boys Locker room" than we also had screen shots from "Girls locker room". After that, many people may not now this, there was a news of suicide of a 14 year boy who was also being mocked by a girl for slamming her two years ago. The internet is going crazy everyone is putting their opinions, some in a very harsh way and some in a subtle way. However, i haven't posted a single story about it cause i don't know what should i feel sorry for. Honestly, my heart aches seeing humanity and ethics being shoved down like this everyday. Like seriously, what is happening to humans? All this was and will never be about a particular gender, it will always be about humans. How day by day we are  feeling insecure about ourselves and therefore keep mocking others. But the question still remain, Who is to be blamed for all this happening? One of the major answer of this is going to be our Ed...

Accept your gloom

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" Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody"                                                                                                            -Mark Twain      No one in this whole world is purely good, full of light. Each and every one of us has a dark side, and this darkness does not makes you a bad person the proportion does. Have you ever got mean to someone? or broke someone's heart? If you answer this as no, then think again cause you have everyone of us have. And if your answer was, yes but i had my reasons, then this article is worth a read. " Forgiveness for other is always easier than self forgiveness" Forgiving is always considered to b...

vulnerability

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What if I tell you, each time you cried you not only felt good about it later but you realeased tension which was not even a reason why you cried. Okay! When was the last time you cried? Not like one or two drops of tears but you cried so hard that your nose and eyes were watering with same speed.  Chances are their has been a month, a year or even more. No i am not telling you to tear up for no reason. But I am telling you, why do you behave as metal hearted person when all you really want is to crul up like a child and cry? Especially men! What's up with you hiding all of your emotional baggage? Whenever we are pissed off at the maximum level, many shoot, sometimes people punch other people or the wall, break things, hurt other people (physically and emotionally also). And later we regret all this cause we overreacted a bit.  What I am trying to say is, it's okay to be vulnerable at times. It's okay to call your mom and cry out to her about the crap that happe...

Living Like atoms

Somewhere between saying, " lets just give it one more try"  and " No, i can't  take it anymore"  our life circle ends.  So do you remember your chemistry class when your teacher told you for the first time that everything around us is made up of atoms which consist of a positively charged proton and a negatively charged electron... you all must be thinking why am i screwing up you by taking back to boring chemistry classes. But our life is also just as that atom which has got negativity and positivity, together makes our life neutral. Then it will be at times when you face failure, thinking that everything has come to an end but does it.? DOES THIS IS REALLY THE END? when you come across such question, rethink the situation what is the worst you can get from this failure offcource life is not on its end yet, you will get to know that whether you are overreacting or not. Then think that does this failure have given me something? something good , something to l...

Equality

 So.. what does first comes in your mind when you here the word"equality " Some of us maybe thought of women's  right, some of reservation system and some other thought 'oh i am general doesn't  means  anything  to be'.  But does this  is really  equality?  Think... Equality  is not 0.4+0.6, equality  is 0.5+0.5 which makes us one. Government  has given us the source for having equal rights but do we really  know how to use this? Being a girl it is difficult  to say, but girls have got many rights and powers and offcource they deserve this but only a few knows how to use it effectively while many of us are just busy in making  out profits from what we got. We also see now a days some fake cases being  registered  about boys  for teasing  and all and also it is easy to do so, i don't  say that girls don't  deserve  respect , they do deserve and more than boys! All i say is ...