"what is wrong?"

Recently, we had news and trolls flushing over the internet about "Boys Locker room" than we also had screen shots from "Girls locker room". After that, many people may not now this, there was a news of suicide of a 14 year boy who was also being mocked by a girl for slamming her two years ago.
The internet is going crazy everyone is putting their opinions, some in a very harsh way and some in a subtle way.
However, i haven't posted a single story about it cause i don't know what should i feel sorry for. Honestly, my heart aches seeing humanity and ethics being shoved down like this everyday. Like seriously, what is happening to humans?
All this was and will never be about a particular gender, it will always be about humans. How day by day we are  feeling insecure about ourselves and therefore keep mocking others.
But the question still remain, Who is to be blamed for all this happening?
One of the major answer of this is going to be our Education System. All these kids of 14-16 years are still into teenage and its a very fragile time of their life. They are learning faster but from wrong sources. The easy access to internet also plays a very important role here. "With opening gates for knowledge of heaven, the gate for hell also opens."  The parents are also too be blamed, maybe because they are being to busy in their life that they do not have time to look after what their kid is doing on internet.
The world is and never will be in Black and White, we all are just different shades or gray. The problem isn't, the one thrash talking do not know when to stop and the one who is trash talked about is for the right reasons.
We should not lose faith, we should handle these things in a subtle way. We need to understand each other, we need to see both sides of the story and we does not need to pick sides, we just have to take a stand for what is wrong, not about who is wrong but about what is wrong!

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  1. Adit23 May 2020 at 06:21

    Very well and thoughtfully written. Totally agree with you. It surely was so shamefully portrayed and people just jumped in to judge and mock.
    This is a true example of we act sometimes without thinking about that repercussions of it. It surely was a sad incident. B
    this gives a very important lesson to parents to be open with their child and teach them the right morals and ethics to live with.
    *Respect must be given to earn*

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  2. Dimple Gothankar4 July 2021 at 06:38

    thankyoou so much @adit i didn't know if a lot of people read my blogs so i don't check it often. your comment made me feel really happy. Thankyou once again

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